“You are a real woman” I heard from a man yesterday.

He explained that he experiences many women who want to be “saved” and where the man is the savior in many cases. A real woman is therefore someone who can handle herself, a woman who knows her shadow and her light, a woman who knows her strength and who can save herself if she falls …

I recognize this now…. where I used to be able to experience uncertainty in being my own wife, I now stand in it, I feel myself and I can carry myself. What I mean by that is that I can be sensual, sexual when I feel that way and that I can even feel this in slobber pants, that I know that I can handle everything that life gives me. And that also means that I can surrender, have myself taken care of (yes also by my husband), that I can receive and that I can fully trust in myself. I’m always there for myself…

And when I’m with women, sometimes I feel the collective women’s wound through it, but then I also see women opening up to each other, healing, supporting each other. That opens my heart and that is exactly 1 of the things I come here on earth to do! healing the woman’s wound, helping and guiding forages who want to get to know their own strength. their beautiful body, soul, possibilities.

What is a real woman to you? I’m super curious..